The thing about writing a website called “The Unlost” is that people expect you to help them get unlost, as if you’ve got these wise, profound answers perpetually on the tip of your tongue. They [...]
Answers are Overrated
What if the answers– What if the answers are overrated? * * * I peer over my dashboard at the vast landscape in front of me. “What am I doing here?” I’ve left my job. [...]
Why I Love You Guys More Than Cake (Plus, The Unlost Turns One Year Old!)
Believe it or not, there’s at least one thing I love more than deliciously chocolatey layers of cake: You guys. I mean, until the day I left my job last week, do you know what [...]
I Don’t Want You to Live a Good Life. Here’s Why.
I don’t want you to live a good life. I don’t want you to have a good job or a good relationship. In fact, I don’t even want you to be a good person. Because [...]
The Time Tested, Tried and True, Totally Weird Way to Deal With Sucky Feelings
No one ever really tells you how to deal with the visitors who show up at your door— with Fear and with Hurt and with Sadness. No one’s ever really taught you exactly what to [...]

